[PrincessPerky]

We know them, but not close, the kid was in the nursery rarely with out kids.

I think flowers are rather, expensive, and you then have to figure out what to do with them (just had to help MIL with the trouble), and in this case they lost the house in addition to two girls...I was thinking donation to a kid thing in memory, but they lost the house and all contents.....but cash seems so impersonal...

heh, oddly enough I had a thought of a kitchen arrangement made up like a flower arrangement (forks and spoons instead of flowers) but..well..not very funerally...


Plus well...I can hazard a guess they have insurance to pay for the stuff..but the photos of the kids are the priceless things.....that you can't replace, and that I can't help with....