[Joan.of.the.Arch]

I don't really think I understand what you are describing, but I do have more recent experiences with difficult people than seems normal. Not difficult in the sense of being rude, pushy, inconsiderate, or obnoxious. But difficult in that they are extremely emotionally needy. I want to be kind and gracious, but these people can be so draining to me. There is no hope that this is just a "holidays" situation, so I see no hope that it will come to an end. I've simply recently collected more than my share of tormented, sad souls. And being with them is a workout for my soul.