[PrincessPerky]

I am anti day care due to more than cost, I understand many owmen (and men) feel stifled to stay home, but I notice the research regarding childrens health and such shows daycare to be detrimental in most cases. my two are healthier than the average, happier than the average, and better adjusted, I notice in sunday school a great many of the kids who are in schools or daycare have great difficulty leaving mom and dad, where mine just happily wonder off, they get enough of me at home during the week.

I know many want to defend their position to send their kids off, and I understand if it is due to special circumstances (single parent, or significant money issues) but I do not understand otherwise. there is no school that can come close to being a family..unless it is practically a family.

this is not politically correct and I am sorry if it offends, but if you had kids raise them, if you don't want to, why have them? borrow someone elses for an hour or two a day...