I get picked on for the other extreme...
I have 2 kids, one which is in college. My ex harps on me for "blowing money", but I'm supporting the kids 80% of the time. I cover most expenses whereas he needs a "bill" that comes into the mail before he pays anything. Which isn't very often! Food, clothes, and other living expenses are what I'm "blowing".... grrr....
Dixie