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Oh, I have nothing to hide. I am ready for real truths. I understand that some options people have made (and will make) work for them...and not necessarily ideal for my family. However, everything is worth learning and trying. I can say on the most part I am frugal when it comes to certain things, i.e. thrift shop clothing, yard sales, selling items here and there on Ebay, I clean a house for extra cash (for kids fun stuff). We eat every meal at and get pizza maybe 1 time month. We don't go out to movies, we play outside, sit by a camp fire, kids only get New toys or New clothes when grandparents buy them. So, I just really have to take a good hard look at all those stupis things I buy, spend cash on that make no sense!
I'm lloking ofrward to all the advise......no bitter feeling here! The truth may hurt, but not as bad as the place my finances are.