[dshep]

Its my understanding.. and I could be wrong (its happened before and will happen agian..lol) that facebook is only for college students, and that you need to actually have a college your attending to put on your "website". Myspace is the problem with the younger kids... our high school sent home a letter about it. After recieving that letter and doing searches, I forbid my daughter to use it (shes 17)... She has complied, cause she knows Mom knows how to find all of the kids myspace pages, even if I am not a member. I did find out that lots of kids are using the wrong age.. I found a 15 year olds neighbors son with a 35 year old age, and listed as living two towns away... My suggestion would be.. find your SS pages, read all of the messages left on the pages from his friends, and then start clicking on his friends listed.. what has been left on thier sites... you gain a ton of info that way. I do it about once amonth... not that I dont trust my daughter, I just want to know who and what is going on, so I can say no.. if a kids name comes up in a conversation about who she is hanging with.. perhaps after reading all of the pages... you and hubby could confront SS and then he will know, you two are wise to him and his friends...and then hubby and ex wife could do something.