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SS does equal step-son......
He is here every other weekend....
I love him with all my heart and I need the information for hubby and step-mom help him help himself?! KWIM? I hurt hearing the daily news of parents calling teacher that know me and my situation telling me the daily grid with SS.
Then in turn being the step-mom I have to relay the information to Hubby and well......Any step-mom knows......bio-parents tend to stick thier heads in the sand.....Until it bites them in the booty! LOL Right now, hubby has just got a huge bite!
I had been (when He is here) archiving his messenger when he leaves it on. He really either doesn't care or hadn't quite figured out what is up as far as that is concerned. I have found out about the kids he "hangs with" and felt like a major dummy thinking two or three kids are good kids when in reality they were the worst. I have done the myspace, tagged, and clicked til I am blue in the face.....EEEEWWWWWWW
These teens today enjoy brodcasting there friday nights!LOL OMG!
My hubby just now is realizing my step-son has a problem...How big of a problem? I don't know! But if I can find out early enough, and help him help himself.......with therapy
drug-a-nonimus stc Before it is tooo late I feel I have done my job as a parent. KWIM? Yes It is sneaky....Lordy, I have thought about the things and priviate convos etc til I am losing sleep..But If you felt in your gut that one of your children are getting into the wrong crowd, trying drugs etc..Wouyldn't you cut your arm off to know how long and how deep he is into it? See, That is where I am at. I want to help! I love him! But I can not snatch him up and throw him in rehab without more proof than I have. So far, the only proof is he was buzzing at school two days, he is drinking and he is tearing up things to get a rush or whatever. Now if I can find out that it is a every weekend thing and he does have a problem and not experiamenting, hubby will have the proof, to go to the ex and together they can do something....