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I still don't understand your income. You say you recieve $95,000 gross, which I'm guessing would be between $65k & $70k after taxes. But Dh only brings home $1200 every two weeks (which is $1200x26=$31,200/year) plus a bonus? Something just doesn't seem right. Either the bonus is $35,000 or you bring home $1200 every week, instead of every two weeks, or the 95k gross is way off.