Re: When is it time to throw out clothes?
Yes, it is a problem to approach someone about personal matters such as choice of clothing.
Is their financial situation the reason for their lack of new clothes? If so, have they considered thrift shops or consignment shops? Also, just how bad are the holes in the clothes? Are they beyond mending, darning, or patching? Could they perhaps be dyed so as not to appear less faded?
Even when "hanging around the house" a person can wear comfortable clothes. I do the same. However, I wouldn't feel right walking around in "holey" clothes if I could have mended or replaced them.
This is a new thought, perhaps, but since I'm unsure of their ages, I'd consider the question as to whether your aunt and uncle are depressed. When people are depressed, they tend to care less about their personal appearance.
Wearing nice clothes, as much as you can afford to have, or at least well-kept (clean and mended) clothes shows self-respect and makes you feel better about yourself.
Can you approach this with a positive outlook? I know it's been awhile since you posted your message, but perhaps my comments don't help you, someone else may benefit.
I wish you the best in this situation. Happy Valentine's Day!
Margaret Kur
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