[greedy4chips]

What if you became a stripper or hooker and made tons of money and didn't share it with him?

I know that is a ridiculous question, but it isn't what he spends his time on that bothers you the most is it? What you are looking for is a husband you care share your thoughts and feelings with.

Ask him to cut back to 1 night a week. If he can't cut down, then perhaps he is addicted. I am sure he wouldn't want you to be out doing your hobby while he was home either.

I think it is time for a long heartfelt discussion on where your relationship is and where it is going. My wife kicks my butt all the time to get my priorities back in line! I respect her more and more for having the right things in life prioritized and setting me straight when I wander.

I promoted poker for 2+ yrs on my website. I make $600+/month from revenue. I use to play a ton and it did get out of hand. I was making another $400 the last couple months playing poker. I played low stakes. Eventually I moved up to the $1/$2 tables in an effort to increase my income and did well, but honestly I was spending too much time doing it.

After a little talk we decided that my playing time was hindering our relationship and I cut back cold turkey. After 3+ months I finally played again and have no real desire to play...the addiction lost it's appeal.