[rickatheslicka]

I go back and forth. If I know the person receiving the gift has been trying to be frugal, I might get them something less practical that they otherwise wouldn't get for themselves, as a treat, like movie tickets and a promise to babysit.

Other times, I try to get them something they need and will definitely use. But it can be hard to put yourselves in their shoes and know what it is that they need. For example, they may have food stamps and would never dream of telling you that. But then a grocery store gift card would not be the most prudent present for them. I try to keep an ear out for things they mention, but even then I know some presents I have given were not a big hit.

Overall, it's the thought that counts, right?