I know, and it does sometimes worry me that in the future when we're married and have kids and don't live here, he'll let her do what she wants still and not say anything to her. We've been together 3 years, 7.5 months now, and I hope it won't be an issue. I've mentioned it to him before, and he's said that when he doesn't have to be here and be subject to her "wrath" he won't mind making her angry if she's out of line. I just have to hope he sticks to that.