[rob62521]

I agree with Princess on the fiance' standing up part. We didn't live together before marriage, but I should have seen it coming when my dh always gave into his family before we married. My in-laws weren't kind to me and he let them get away with it. My mil would run me down in front of people and no one came to my defense. I finally started speaking up for myself which made her even more hateful. If my husband had said something at the beginning, I think it would have allievated a lot of problems.