PrincessPerky - As far as our separate bedrooms... They put me in his sister's old room (she got married at 18 and moved out already... she's younger than me). I feel like they're treating me like i've replaced his sister, since she moved to another state and they don't see her often.

I'm expected to do my little chores and pick up groceries for everyone, but I have zero time. I get up at 6am to workout (I NEED to to relieve all my stress), shower, eat breakfast and such, and then I go to school (college) from 8am-2pm, then I come home, eat lunch really fast, and go to work from 3pm-11pm, after which I come home and get to bed so I can get up the next morning.

As far as being separate or it being just an illusion, it's really miserable having to feel awkward even holding hands in front of them. We did used to live together on our own, before they recommended we move in to save money. In that case, we had 2 bedrooms, but it was just an illusion of separate bedrooms. Here, we can't be alone because his mother sporadically comes knocking and opening doors. She needs to let go, he's almost 24, and graduated from college already. I'm just beyond frustrated with the situation.

I'm working hard, and in about 3 weeks, when I've gotten some money in the bank, we're gonna go look at some apartments, and see if we can possibly get any landlords to work with us...

Thanks for the input everyone