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(((Time to Save))))

Some people here are very limited in the scope of their lives and their paradigm is far different from yours.

What I don't understand are responses that focus on the past. Yes she made mistakes, she knows that. Why don't we just work with what we have and go forward.

When someone states the reasons for their decisions, just accept them. Like the cell phone. She needs the cell phone, maybe you don't think she does, but Time to Save thinks she does so telling her to give it up is not helpful. How about going to prepaid cell phone like Virgin or something? Come up with some ideas that will work with her needs.

We have all made mistakes, well maybe not ALL, but I know I have and some of the posts here are so honestly rude, I wouldn't blame her if she never posted another thing.

Stop and think before you hit that submit button people. This a real live human you are dealing with.

And I will say it again, where do you people shop???? $400.00 for a family of four seems like a very decent amount to spend for food.

For you with the criticisms about food costs... let's see some menus and prices please. Just telling her she can do better is not a real big help in my opinion.


Time to Save, I hope you stay and let us know how you are doing.