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Wow...I'm so sorry things have gone downhill like that. Maybe what you need to do is talk to your fiance and figure out your plan. Then, call a "family meeting" Tell them exactly what you've written in your post as far as the demands, etc. Maybe work out that you will start paying them rent instead of doing all the additional housework? Is there anyway you can do your laundry on the weekends?

I feel for you - I lived with DH's parents for 3 months and it was the LONGEST 3 months of my life. I give you a lot of credit for getting this far with them. Maybe if you guys all sit down and get it all out in the open, things will improve and you can stick it out.

Good luck!