Yeah, I've seen that show. I bet Mrs. Duggar beats her children to get them to behave because children just don't act that way with out some kind of force. I now wake my oldest daughter up at 5:30am. I make her get everyones breakfast ready then serve it. She now has many chores which she never used to do. Her shoes arrived in the mail today, so it's been a hard day for me. I'm afraid to let my children cook. You would think my oldest daughter would be responsible and smart, but not mine. Like one time she stuck her hand in the oven to get a muffin pan with out an oven mit. So I'm afraid for her safetey and my house's safetey. She put popcorn in the microwave and it still had the plastic on it. I know I could watch her more closely but I am too busy to watch her when it would be faster and easier for me to do it. I really appreciate all of your suggestions!!! Thanks