I want to say thank you to everyone who has given me suggestions. I have changed a few things like.... changing my ebay password.(I think I'm goning to close my ebay account) My ex hubby paid for the shoes. Got the check yesterday. We are now trying to conserve water and electricity. My mother wants me to keep the credit cards-all of them. I paid off 1 and a half credit cards already. My kids go back to school tomorrow(Tuesday) Yes! I'm going to start cooking 3 days a week(It's better than what I used to) I am going to clean house today and reward my self with going out to dinner. My oldest daughter is helping around the house now. I also got a part time job at Victoria's Secret. Just to pay off my credit cards even faster so I can afford luxuries. I really like working there, I get great discounts! My daughter is entering a beauty pageant, so that means an entrance fee. She won last year and the grand prize was $5,000! So I'm hoping she wins again. Thanks again for all your help. This is a great group of money savers!