[debtfreeme]

If i invite to something then I pay. If he invites he pays. It has been this way the entire time we have been "dating" (don't ask ended it trying to move on)

But even when i invite someplace, many times he ended up paying because he wanted to. He likes to show off that he has money. Got tiring.

But it has always been that way for me, if i invite or suggest something, i expect to pay for both of us and am pleasantly surprised when the other person pays. I don't expect it but it is a nice treat to have someone else pay.

I have to admit, me and my frugal and trying to lose weight lifestyle right now i suggest a lot of walks by the river or a long walk to the movies or to jamba juice or something along those lines. Or to rent a video. Something simple. He usually chooses the more elaborate things to do. And when i go and visit him in Phoenix, we split the cost of the ticket and he ends up paying for almost everyting else.