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Old 07-08-2006, 10:26 AM
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Default Re: graciously asking for no gifts

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Originally Posted by jodi_m
I would like to have two small parties this year for my son who will be turning 3 next month. We always have a family party at the house with his grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. I was thinking about also having a small get-together at a playground for about 5 kids with cake and ice cream. However...I don't want even more toys that he can't use. I cannot deny the family buying gifts because
1. it won't stop them anyway
2. they just won't get it - after all, who wouldn't want their child to not have more toys??
So I am wondering if I can ask for no gifts on the preschooler party. I was thinking of wording it something like this: "Owen would like this day to celebrate with his friends. Just bring yourselves and be ready to have fun! No gifts please." Or I can ask that they donate a gift to a charitable organization instead. Thoughts??
I didn't read the comments. Probably this one came up many times but I would suggest that they bring money to contribute to a college fund and that you get the child at least one new toy. A brithday with no toy at all just doesn't sound rignt
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