women need LOVE from their man
men need RESPECT from their women
God MADE women to LOVE their man (it says so in the bible)...so it stops at respect with the man because he knows his woman will always love him.
Show your man a little respect, and he'll be itching to do anything for you. tell him thanks often...boost his ego, tell him how much you appreciate the things he does... it works
he'll be doing so many loving things after that you won't know what to do with yourself.