[markio26]

THANKS EVERYONE!!! for all of the comments.... we married very young, and without all of the hoopla going on today...so, i think we sorta grew up together, enjoying the seasons of our lives.........i think pp is correct in keeping the mouth shut... i hummmmm before i say something back.. lol... i think that the woman has to wear way too many hats in a marriage and her various relationships.....i find that i am way too bossy.... i like organization and safety... so, i speak up... annoys spouse... but, everyone else understands this... less clutter, happier home.. no eating, drinking, talking on cell phone in the car for the driver.. spouse likes to do this.. drives me mad.... and he always gauks around looking in ppl's back yard to see if they have junk for sell, while driving.. i try to be the driver if i can... lol.. me on the other hand, i crochet, do coupons, check my grocery list, read a book, magazine, talk on cell phone, eat, drink, chew bubble gum, listen to cd's, watch dvd's while i am the passenger.. he doesn't talk much.. so, i have to feel in the gaps... lmao...too funny......... i still love him.. i think my marriage has turned from passionate to compassionate..........this seems to be true of our friends marriages..........i am blessed to have a wonderful spouse and good looking too.. no gray hair and he is younger, and looks like paul mcCartney alot.