[markio26]

thanks thriftyray:
sorry about the loss of your brother... yeah, my dad was proud of me.. out of 5 kids, i am next to the baby... he told everyone, i was the only one he didn't have to worry about, i would get by... 3 of the siblings, have burned thru half of their inheritance, and my older sis is gonna semi retire from being an rn early, she is burning hers on trips.. i have every penny, didn't need it, did not expect it, he owed me nothing, he raised me, i learned so much from him.. i was financially secure already... i did expect to get his home, he told me to save and buy the other kids out,, i did, they agreed, and then they sold it for a loss to my older sisters friend.. ouch!!!! dad put in his will to get along and not fight.. so, i am upset with them still and they are avoiding me, because i am friends with my dad's friend yet.. they don't like certain ppl. and hold grudges, what a waste of time.. i look to the future.. and they all attend church more than i do.. they need to pay attention.....lol... the reason i was to get the house, was i used to be a realtor, i pledged my commission, on the sale of their mobile home, and on the land contract that purchased the land for the new house they built.. my dad paid us back over 3 yrs, in payments, plus we loaned him $16,500 to pay off the land.. without any interest and my spouse helped him do alot of the work on the house, while the other kids were too busy... anyways, bygones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i moved on, life is too short... recently, my older sis, stopped by and wanted me to buy the house from the guy they sold it too.. he obtained a thirty thousand equity loan on the house, besides what he paid us for it.. i proudly looked her in the eyes and said, crash and burn.....mean i know but, she is mean to care so much about the other guy and not dad's wishes and me, her sister...