[Snoopy2645]

wELL I agree the arguments about money in my house are because we dont have the same goals. I want to save for retirement & dh wants to buy new trucks & I want to save for my retirement he says no big deal he will be dead by then anyways!!! Although I think just because he thinks he will be dead so why save he will probably live a long life of misery in his old age BROKE!!!

I have learned to hide money. I am getting better at it. My goals are to own a paid for house his is to have a new truck all the time. I would much rather drive a junky car & get a camper or boat something we can have family memories with other than well we drove a brand new car so we were cool LOL!!! DOnt think the kids will care about that in 10yrs Yya know?? Heck I know they wont my kids dont remember what I drove 3yrs ago I change cars about every year so they dont remember 2 cars ago what I drove so I am sure they dont care what dad drives. Can I explain this to DH not a chance!!!