That's not uncommon! I lived with my DH before we got married and we had been together for 7 years by the time we married, so I had prepared myself for not feeling any different... the only thing different is my last name!
After spending so much effort and thought on my wedding, after it was over and I had been to some other weddings, I learned that the guests don't care nearly as much as I thought they would about favors and entrees and etc.
The most important thing is that you enjoyed the day! You can always have a housewarming party or get together for friends and family if you're itching to spend more money. I think you should be proud of yourself! I know a couple who received $25,000 for their wedding from their parents and they've been whining that it isn't enough.
