[Fern]

Getting married is not about the wedding. It's about all the years to come, knowing you a one and only you can count on no matter what, during good times and bad.

If you want more of a celebration, you could throw a big party, the first as a married couple, for friends and family. Not that I'm encouraging you to blow a lot of money, but...

Maybe you're feeling something similar to post-partum depression? All the big build-up, and then...