[elcheapo]

oh please, it is all in how we react, some people are victims and some people are victors.
Some people are trapped by there past and they will live and die in there past and some people had an terrible past and they use it to create a wonderful future. So sure it depend on how we react. It is in the mind how a person thinks. look at bill gates his dad was just a judge or oprah winfrey her dad is a barber, my father came from a family that was dirt poor but he manage to achieve wealth and had his own business because he hated being poor.
Granted people in family tend to thing the same way unless they get around someone different.