Re: Need advice, Mother in law, wow
Ok, what I'm about to say comes from my work.....
I work with mentally ill adults. Too many of them show up after families finally admit that something's "wrong". Often, they come into work after a few days to visit and we explain what we do, but keep smuggling in cigarettes, booze, etc...
We end up confronting some of them and showing that they are "enablers" who, if they get a little tougher, can show their sons/daughters/wives/husbands that their behavior cannot be tolerated....Some success, some failure.
I wish you luck, you're going to need it. But you have the great ability to realize that even if you're out of the will, it doesn't matter. Try to seperate the emotional from the facts...and keep your perspective.
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