Ok WOW, I'm done, this family puts more FUN in dysfunctional than mine does, lol! BIL is now informing me she ISN'T paying their bills, she ISN'T covering for them, etc, etc. Claims he's known about her cash problems for a year and that he's given back every penny she's given them and 25% more. Sure, uh huh, yep. Oh, and it's our fault that we're not there all the time, shame on us for having a life and living an hour away, shame, shame.
The more I think about this whole thing it was like pulling teeth to get her to admit who she's paying things for, and I SWEAR she's trying to turn hubbies against wives!
Geez, almost wonder if she did some of this on purpose to get her sons to come back home.
BTW, I've SEEN the bills, the CC charges etc. So know who's taking from her
This is going to be sad to sit back and watch, just sad
I think I'll go cook hubby a REAL GOOD dinner tonight, then we'll go for a long walk and be thankful for each other and all we have.
kj