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Originally Posted by Ima saver
Does the youngest son and his family live with her? Are you afraid if she does on line banking , he (youngest son) might steal money from her? She has got to take control of this situation fast!
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No they don't live with her, they have their own house, he hides in moms house all day and no I don't trust him to stay out of her online accounts (mom works all day) This sons wife works evenings, so he goes home at 5 and stays with the baby for the evening. In my opinion this is NOT healthy for the sons marriage EITHER, mom lets him run and hide, he needs to grow up, suck it up, be a MAN and be in his marriage.
And steal from her? As far as I'm concerned he already is! He uses her CC's ALL the time without paying her back, they ran up cell phone bills over 200 a month and she paid them, she pays their vehicle insurance.
And things with the SON are probably coming to a head too, he commented to me "I had a choice, pay our health insurance or the car payment, oh well let them take the car"
With him not working and the job his wife has she can probably cover the house payment and MAYBE electric, but nothing else, so thats about to explode and this time mom can't bail them out!
Again, MIL is a WONDERFUL woman but would let any of the sons run home to her, each of the wives (3 of us) are very different and in different places in life, we are not in contact, only speaking at holidays, not a dislike thing, just different lives and lifestyles.
kj