Thanks. I do clean up after myself, and everyone in most of the house. I tend to forget my own room though, but I've been working on that today, haha. I do need to work my way down to shorter showers. I will defintely try to get those quicker. We do spend time with them. We see them daily, and every Friday (and sometimes Saturdays as well), we have a "movie night" and watch a movie (that we already own of course) together. I've cooked once for them, but it's hard because his parents work opposite schedules, so it's rare for them to both be home for dinner. Also, his mother doesn't ever know when she's getting home, so it's difficult for me to plan dinner around her schedule. I at least take care of the dishes afterward though. Oh, and that helps because it's just sink-washing, there is no dishwasher. I've never even had one actually. We get along pretty well, there are a few quirks his mother has that annoy me, but I try to bite my tongue through it. Thanks for the suggestions, I'll try them. If you have any more, I'd love to hear them.