[nanamom]

As a parent, let me tell you you are more worried than your Dad is about the debt. WE were worried about a debt we owed DH's parents and when we finally had the money to pay it off they refused it. What a blessing. But, if it will make you feel better, by all means start paying him off. Do you dump your change into a jar every day? If not start. At the end of the month, count it, give it to him and mark that off of your debt. As to the vet, You would have done the same thing for him. Relax and let someone help you out by taking payments. Consider it another medical bill and give him a few dollars a month. Pay the CC debt first.It is what is preventing you from paying the other stuff. I sold some stuff on ebay for extra money and had a garage sale. I don't know your situation with work but you could try babysitting one evening a week, or selling a item you make or? and using that money for a specific debt. Princess Perky is right a reward once in a while if important.