Re: Married to a spender
no problem...It has to be tough when one's a spender and one's a saver...
I used to be like that...Then I got smart!
The only way to come into the open is (my .02 cents)....sit down, and tell him "Honey, I'm concerned about your money. What happens if you become disabled, lose your job, etc.? How are you going to pay your bills? I love you, but the money I have will have to go to the living bills and the neccessities to live, I cannot bail you out."
Silly question...but what is his age, and does he have a budget? Do you? What do you guys make? Let's have some data!
Plus, NEVER let him on your accounts or credit....you might get a good short term deal, but I think he'd negate that really quickly.
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