liveandchi: It seems like you need to make some reductions, but it doesn't look to be out of the question. I would focus on trying to make it so you are at least breaking even each month. If you can do that, then your holiday bonus can go toward paying down debt.
I would also consider starting a home business as <A HREF="http://www.savingadvice.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2096&page=2">I explained in another thread</A>. This will give you a nice tax refund which can also go toward paying down debt.