Lovcom. I think I am walking out of the so called relationship...It is too stressful to have this type of relationship and deal with my own money situation. I am going to wait a bit and find someone who can at least appreciate to have some fun with the fruit of his labor rather than keep saving it for when he dies. This is not about having fun once in awhile or having fun in the sack either..he had some major surgery and is unable to for the time being. We cant go to a movie, a play or a nice vacation...so when does the fun part begin?
Last week he picked me up in one of his old beat up Ford Escort (small car to save on gas) and had the never to tell me how he saw his daughter and her boyfriend driving her brand new car that he bought her this summer. The boyfriend was driving it. So I guess I dont deserve much, not even for him to drive his newer model economy car. We dont go to the movies..but he can go and buy gift certificates for his daughter to go. He now insist on driving me around in this car....and we date on a budget..last night was my turn to pay for dinner.. I cant do that anymore with someone that has well over a million in the bank.
Anyway I was up all night and I was thinking that perhaps the best thing to do is file for BK...get rid of the credit cards and the equity lines of credit and get a brand new start. I need to plan for my retirement and I am not getting any younger and possible be alone the rest of my life. I cant even save any money now with the properties and the balances have not gone down at all in the last 4 years. I dont know if and when real estate will pick up again so that I can sell.
Anyway..having a bad day today.
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