There is a point where you enjoy your "fruits". Most people want them before they are ripe to be picked.
Old habits are extremely hard to break. It's the same problem a spendthrift has, just in reverse. You can't expect a guy who has been frugal his whole life to just start spending money. Plus, to alot of people, a remodeled house or a nice hotel is just not important to them.
But he may just be cheap. Don't think you are going to change him. Lots of women think they can change their man and most end up very unhappy.
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