Lovcom...I am still way behind from having my finances in order. I think our money situation and his plans for his money in the future will eventually break our relationship.
I sometimes wonder how much money is enough money for him. In spite of the fact that he gets a very nice retirement $10,000, and has closed to a million saved..he is is extremely careful with his money to the point that his home has not been updated, his clothing and there doesnt seem to be any extra money to do fun things except things that would not cost you any money or very cheap hotels or motels that you drive to....so there is no thought of a nice vacation. I do want to be financially secure and want to get to a point that I could plan something nice for myself and enjoy life while I am still in this planet. I am working on that. I do believe that there is a point where you can say... I've worked very hard and I deserve to enjoy the fruit of my labor..not my children when I die.
Anyway...I am really working very hard on myself and maybe meeting this person has helped me in some ways about my money situation.
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