[TBH]

Like Marla, I spend the most on the person who spends the most on ME. My sister. I'm not sure, because I know she's a good bargain hunter, but I think she spends well over a hundred dollars on me for Xmas, and same for my birthday which is right before Xmas. I can't afford to do that, but I do spend $50-$75 on her, which is more than I spend on each of my parents, my kid, etc. I don't do Xmas for my spouse because he's a Jew and an atheist, but I do spend $50-$100 for his birthday and again for our anniversary.