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[someone...]who realises she needs to face up to her (crappy) relationship with money
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This was me back in June! Not there yet but I can share what has worked for me so far:
1) as creditcardchaser said: Write down your goals! I add: write them down, write them again, share them with trusted family and friends (but don't let them tell you it can't be done) Write them again, post them somewhere you can see them.
(Building a good relationship with money can be a goal)
You don't have to get them right the first time and it is ok if you go blank. See my first blog post where I started very general:
This is a journey to into self-abundance. The more I have, the more I have to give.Manifesting Abundance from the Heart
2) Dive into budgetting. There are more than one correct way to do this, try a few things and see what works for you. It is ok if you don't get the categories right, they can not be wrong anyway, they are
your categories.
Do your homework; don't know how much you spend on gas? You'll need to figure it out.
This is my budget if it helps you get started:
A budget is born, and Thank you!
3) Remember those goals you write down in number one? Time to start braking them up in tasks and executing!