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Old 07-30-2009, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by MonkeyMama View Post
I grew up thinking poor people tithed and wealthy people didn't.

Giving money is a GREAT thing, if you can truly afford it. But you need to be able to take care of yourself first.
I totally agree. I work in a poor area. I have actually had patients tell me that they can't afford their medication because after they pay the bills and tithe, they don't have enough left to live on. I try to nicely suggest that surely God doesn't want them to die of uncontrolled high blood pressure or diabetes in order to give more to the church. It is an awkward conversation but I do my best to diplomaticlaly suggest that their health is more important than how much they give to charity. If they die or become disabled from illness, they won't be able to help those in need at all.

It is truly a mindset that I can't personally comprehend.
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