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Originally Posted by Well Spent
It's all about compromise  I knew one week in what I want. But I want to be sure before I invest more in this. I figure 3 months will give me good info about him. Plus he's not ready to put out yet so I'm trying to be patient. |
This to me is just a very disrespectful attitude. "he;s not ready to put out yet"????
3 months for "good info"??
I know a person who married and 7 years later found out "bad info"--time doesn't give you the info always.....
What if he wants to wait longer? will that mean he isn't worth it to you?
We waited until after we were married and there are no complaints.
Also, no issues over who has what disease or who was in his/her past and no worries about who he is comparing me to.
Guess I am old fashioned. I believe in the 10 commandments and the wedding ring first.