[cercis]

Princess, I think I'd be there, but 2 kids and 30lbs gained, lost, partly gained back means that most of my clothes don't really look good on me. They look okay, but not good.

It's very frustrating to look in my closet and realize that one sweater I've had since before DH and I met, and when I got it, I had to wear a turtleneck under it to keep from showing too much cleavage. Now I wear it with nothing under it and it barely comes down my chest. Most of my blouses were my mother's that she outgrew.

Also, most of my clothes don't look good on me because they never did. They were bought as gifts for me without me trying them on - and always looked like it. I have about 2 things that look attractive, the rest look pretty frumpy. It's no wonder that when people see me in jeans and a "skinny" tee they're shocked.

I so need "What not to wear".