How old were both you?
Culture plays a big role in our expectations. It's hard for all of us to think any way differently than how we are raised. Also, age is a big deal. Being a virgin in an arranged marriage at 18 is way different than 23 or older. Sex and money are the biggest reasons why marriages are happy or sad. (I don't say "fail" because often failed marriages are the ones that last the longest due to anger and spite).
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