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Originally Posted by LivingAlmostLarge
I think you should register. I might come across as crass, but did you get pregnant immediately after meeting your boyfriend?
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I actually have known my now boyfriend for longer than my ex-husband. We grew up in the same neighborhood and we started spending alot more time together during divorce process because I was spending alot of time with his mother. We hung out in the same circle during my marraige but things changed once the divorce started snowballing. I guess I am writing alot (just dont want anyone to think I cheated because I did not).
But yes I did become pregnant almost immediately once we desided to take it to that level. See he had a vacatimy about 8 years ago, I guess you are suppose to recheck those after a certain number of years. Lets just say that caused some tension between us, and there is still a little hurt there. He claimed it was my ex's and I knew for a fact it was his. But once he went back in and the dr told him his surgery needed to be redone he was extremely sorry.
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Originally Posted by LivingAlmostLarge
What will you do for child support? Do you have any ideas about drafting an agreement now prior to birth?
It does happen that sometimes one father is more responsible than another. This could be the case with your boyfriend and ex husband.
Sounds like his family is very generous. And unfortunately your other two children do have family from your ex hubby. Do they get things from them?
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Right now we have a verbal agreement for support of unborn baby, I am locked into a lease aggrement so even if we wanted to he to he could not move in and I am not breaking the lease early. I have miscarried twice in the past so I guess I dont want to put anything in writing so that I dont jinx the pregnancy.
My boyfriends family is very generous, his mom was so helpful to me when I was going through my divorce. She and my godmother are best friends. The family of my ex-husband are angry that we divorced and think it is all my fault and that the ex is perfect, so they have sort of disowned the children.