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Originally Posted by Well Spent
Again, really focus on yourself and your own goals for the next several years. If you marry, do not marry before 30 at minimum.You'd rather say "I wish I'd married years ago" than say "I wish I got to enjoy young adulthood, building a career, and learning about myself before legally and probably spiritually tying yourself to another person semi-permanently.
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...Or you can have a long term relationship fostered slowly, maintain both individual career/educational/entertainment/financial goals, and begin to find common ground with these goals as you move towards marriage, all before the age of 30 if that just coincidentally happens to be the time it occurs for you. There are 50 year-olds who should not be looking at marriage, and there are young adults who waste a chance at a more fulfilled married life, all because they create artificial timelines. There is no such thing as the ultimate lifestyle, be it married or single.