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Originally Posted by RadiatorRT
so, she asked for a divorce, who would have thought , hahaha...either way the green card gets cancelled if your not married for 2 years. sad really...thx for the advice everyone.
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SO now you have your answer. You know how calculating and evil this woman and her father are. Congratulations, you dodged a bullet! Be glad it happened now. And be very careful about who you give your heart to next. It it important for you to work with a trusted counselor to explore why you were so vulnerable to a predator. It could be bad luck; but based on your thought process, I think your low self-esteem made you a target of this criminal.
Your story is another anecdote of why I am suspicious of marriage. On another thread, posters advise waiting until you're married to have sex. I can't think of a more ludicrous idea than that. Talk about marrying for the wrong reasons!
Again, really focus on yourself and your own goals for the next several years. If you marry, do not marry before 30 at minimum.You'd rather say "I wish I'd married years ago" than say "I wish I got to enjoy young adulthood, building a career, and learning about myself before legally and probably spiritually tying yourself to another person semi-permanently.