You made the right decision not to continue with that deal. Since you are both young, and newly married, this is a real learning experience. Hopefully it will teach you to make big decisions together, with a long term perspective instead of "I want it" and emotional blackmail. Major disagreements don't have to mean divorce- it may mean you just haven't developed the relationship skills to resolve conflicts. A marriage also has to exist independently of either set of parents involvement.
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