thanks for the great responses. this morning i called the loan officer and cancelled the loan, getting my application fee back...so no money lost..didnt sign any contracts with the lawyer..getting off scott free. my wife however, says that she will move out and spend the weekend by her parents...shes depressed laying in bed all afternoon.. i know this isnt a marriage forum but finances are a major part of life and play such a huge role in all aspects of life, including marriage. sometimes leaning on family is the best thing to do. and some lessons in life are best learnt the hard way(especially if your stubborn like me and dont like to listen to what intelligent/experienced people have to say)...i have basically accepted the fact that this may end in divorce. a stupid reason to end, though.
-Jack
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