Please don't take this as an insult, but it sounds like you don't have much intestinal fortitude...entered into a marriage which you had doubts about, and now are considering going $200K into debt for something you don't want.
You need somebody in your corner. A sibling? A friend? Don't shy away from getting help from your folks, just because you think they'll say "I told you so".
You obviously shouldn't buy this property. Get somebody to help you make sure you don't.
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