I'm not usually one to make judgements like this, but from all you've posted, it sounds like this marriage is doomed to fail. If not now over this condo, later over some other issue. You were forced into marrying her (I have no idea how one gets forced into marriage but that's another issue). Now she and her father are trying to force you into buying a home that you don't want and can't afford. Sure, you make decent money now but that income goes away when you enter medical school. How will you pay the bills then? Plus, what happens if medical school ends up being in a different city or state? You have no guarantee that you'll be accepted into a local school that you want to attend.
Now is not the time to be buying a home - any home.
That said, what the heck are you doing living in your parents' basement? Get a life. Get your own place. You make more than enough money to rent an apartment. Whether you stay with this woman or not, you need to move out and become a grown-up.
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Steve
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